Fresh Fade

I hadn’t worn my real hair out in weeks & I was sick of going between wigs & turbans. On Thursday night, my bf helped me take out a crochet style I had just put in earlier that week. Friday, I took a scissors to my hair & started cutting. & before you assume, no... Continue Reading →

Realistic Optimist

At first, I was bitter af. Because, if you hear it from me, nothing good happened in 2017. But in reality, I kinda sound as ungrateful as that guy who got married & said his summer was a D+. Despite all the foolishness that this year had to offer, 2017 was not a total bust.... Continue Reading →

God is funny.

For as long as I can remember I've always seen myself doing hair, but growing up how I grew up, cosmetology wasn't "practical" (& if you have caribbean sda parents then you probably get it). Honestly I just didn't see my parents supporting the idea of getting a cosmetology license as opposed to getting a... Continue Reading →

So…What Now?

There's a saying that goes, "death always comes in 3's" or so the old people them does say. As a matter of fact, I heard this idiom like 2 weeks ago & apparently the old people might actually be on to something. Never in a million years did I expect to receive the news that I... Continue Reading →

The Wait

So its been like, I dont know...(3 months, 1 week & 2 days) since graduation & guess who’s still unemployed? Well I don’t think that was too hard to figure out, but yes. It me. Anyways, you guys know how much I talk about my self love journey & I personally enjoy documenting the lessons... Continue Reading →

Sticks & Stones

For as long as I can remember, I've always looked "different". My head was always big, so was my nose, my lips, my hands, shoulders, breasts and feet. I was always teased for not being skinny and cute like everyone else. I was almost always the biggest one in my class (height and weight). I... Continue Reading →

Graduation Blues. 

randomly looked up into the crowd on graduation night & spotted my parents. almost immediately tears filled my eyes. felt like I was going through my undergrad graduation service all over again. full of unwanted emotions. I had already spent the entire week before, crying. trying to wrap my head around what the fuck I... Continue Reading →

How to move past a let down.

I know I haven't written anything in a whiiillleeeee, but i've been sitting on this post because I had so many mixed emotions/personal feelings on the topic. Have you guys ever looked up to someone? Looked up to as in "wow this person is amazing, i love what they do, & i wanna be just like... Continue Reading →

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